Site changes

Your not pulling it into frames, so what are using for size definition?
A set measurement or a percentage?
Is it a java script sub routine to give it size , a html comand or something different?
What is the site written in? I dont have a view source on pH so can't see behind the screen

So what exactly is the issue that you are trying to change?
What's the site not doing that you need to change it?

I will be doing more changes to the site tonight. trying to fix the mobile view. haven't had much luck with this oversize database so for now ill just try to fix the mobile side of things

I think there is nothing wrong with having to “earn” the priveledge of being able to interact with other members.
Especially if it is explained to new or prospective members that the reason is to keep spammers out, it’s perfectly understandable.

I was thinking a button to a redirect page, with a name only sign in, that gave you two posts before you had to join.
The site already separates the guests from members, so that's done. The redirect page would be a whole separate set up so new coding allowing a couple of comments per log on to page isn't much more script to add. It adds another layer.
General viewers could look on the usual set up.
As for scammers, deal with it. The Web ain't full of fluffy ducks all quacking nicely. Sure do what you can to stop them getting on site, but end of the day if you get scammed that's because you didn't do enough to check it out, not the site, not Nunga, not me but you.
Its part of the Web, though it's not nice for all you know someone could have signed on as a member and be biding time, waiting to pull a scam.
To many limitations will stop site growth, limit input and become a closed group of people.